Child discipline tips

July 25, 2006 - 0:0
Remember that your behavior serves as a model for your children’s behavior.

Child Discipline Tip 1: Try to set a side time on a regular basis to do something fun with your child.

Child Discipline Tip 2: Reward desirable behavior as much as possible by verbal praise, touch or something tangible such as a toy, food or money.

Child Discipline Tip 3: Rather than tell them what not to do, teach and show them what they should do.

Child Discipline Tip 4: See your role as that of a teacher or coach to your children. Demonstrate in detail how you would like them to behave.

Child Discipline Tip 5: Make sure they understand directions. Have them repeat them back.

Child Discipline Tip 6: Use a friendly but firm communication style when letting a children know they have behaved inappropriately and let them know they will receive the "agreed upon" consequence.

Child Discipline Tip 7: Consequences should be clearly stated and then adhered to when the inappropriate behavior occurs.

Child Discipline Tip 8: The punishment should fit the crime. Also in the case of recurring behavior, consequences should be stated in advance so the child knows what to expect.

Child Discipline Tip 9: Use a soft, confident tone of voice to redirect them when they are upset.

Child Discipline Tip 10: Help your child learn to express how he feels.

Child Discipline Tip 11: When possible give them choices of when and how to comply with a request.

Child Discipline Tip 12: Parent should never disagree about discipline in front of the children.

Child Discipline Tip 13: Never give an order, request, or command without being able to enforce it at the time.

Child Discipline Tip 14: Be consistent, that is, reward or punish the same behavior in the same manner as much as possible.

Child Discipline Tip 15: Agree on what behavior is desirable and not desirable.

Child Discipline Tip 16: Agree on how to respond to undesirable behavior. Make it very clear what the undesirable behavior is.

Child Discipline Tip 17: Make it as clear as possible what the child is to expect if he or she performs the undesirable behavior.

Child Discipline Tip 18: Once you have stated your position, do not keep defending yourself.

Child Discipline Tip 19: Look for gradual changes in behavior. Don’t expect too much. Praise behavior that is coming closer to the desired goal. (Source: tipsnetwork.net)